Smile, take a deep breath, and sit down for a minute.

Remember, it's OK to ask kids to help around house. Keep chanting...I'm allowing them to learn, I'm allowing them to learn.....and when they pout because you asked for help, you'll remember......you're allowing them to learn. I'm still chanting! ;-)

"In the beginning" 5 years ago when my then 8 & 9 yr old granddaughters came to live with me, it was chaos! The first 3 things I did ... 1) All book bags go in one place so we can find them, 2) an "In" box for Grandma for all school papers for signing, notices, etc., and 3)take 5 minutes before bedtime to straighten up the house. The girls straighten their bath and bedroom too.

Delegate. You'll be shocked at what a 5 year old can do when they know that they "job" is important.

Always put foil on a baking sheet...you never have to scrub a pan.

When I tell myself everything will be ok (when I know I'm overwhelmed)I manage to get more done and be less stressed. I'm trying not to be so rigid/serious and let minor things go, such as messy living rooms(mostly toys). I know we'll get things organized by night fall. Extra sleep on some days. If you can get your husband or loved one to agree-thankfully my hubby does. I am so grateful.

Have the sitter come 15 minutes before you think you need them.

To be patient!!!!

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