The Real Housewives Aren't So Real.

by Stefanie Wilder-Taylor


A lot of people don’t enjoy voyeuristic television the way I do. There’s a certain type of person who can’t stomach shows like Sex Rehab with Dr. Drew, MTV’s My Sweet 16 (remember that hot cup of crazy?) or that good old syphilitic romp-fest, Rock of Love. The haters probably fall into one of three camps; either they don’t find the insanity of the “reality” TV genre engaging enough and prefer to curl up with every single incarnation of CSI or they are deeply saddened by the staggering dysfunction portrayed in most of these shows and thus choose to avoid them altogether or else they just have no taste. Maybe there are other camps, with other non-reality fans but those are the only two I can think of right now. Look, I’m not a sociologist okay? I’m just a writer with a lot of opinions and a cup and a half of coffee in me. No you relax! I’m fine!


Anyway, the point is, I absolutely live for these shows and was practically drooling last night because the second episode of Housewives of Orange County was on. This particular franchise of the Housewives Empire is laden with superficial bimbos who can barely scratch a sentence together and I relish every escapist moment. At one point I had to just sit back and silently praise the executive producers for delivering such a highly watchable show to its loyal viewers. I mean, when Tamra, the self proclaimed “hottest housewife” calls Gretchen, the housewife who was engaged to an old guy but was allegedly cheating on him while he was dying of leukemia, a cheating whore and Gretchen half heartedly tried to defend her honor by telling Tamra to shut the bleep up, I almost spilled my Diet 7-Up. Bravo, Bravo network. So no one was more surprised than me when my love for this show almost got ruined by the sheer fact that I’m a mom. Here’s where the train went off the tracks: Lynne, the newest housewife who seems to have a serious Vicidon problem (or maybe I’m reading that into the way she seems slow to process the simplest information), goes into a surgeon’s office with her two teen-aged daughters to get a consult for a face lift for herself…and a nose job for her already perfect yet obviously self esteem challenged daughter. First Lynne sits in the chair while Dr. Ambe, the go-to OC plastics guy, tells Lynne that her eye lids and jowls are her main problem and with his help he can make her look twelve years younger. I watched in disbelief as Lynne says straight to camera, “I think my obsession to stay fit and young is a positive goal for the girls so that when they get to be eighty they’re gonna look as good as me.” Then Dr. Ambe says “Should we get Raquel in the hot seat here?” Raquel says to camera “I feel pressure from living in Orange County to look a certain way. I always compare myself to my sister and my mom.” Then Doc Ambe holds a mirror up to Raquel's face and points out a bump that would only be visible to a delusional teen-ager or a plastic surgeon with a mortgage and says “it’s subtle so that good because there’s less work to be done.” At this point I was almost ready to punch Lynne in the head or at the very least bum a Vicidon from her when Lynn says to camera “Raquel does suffer from low self esteem. She’s always been bothered by that bump on her nose and she needs that confidence now.”



I recently replied to a post on about this topic. I LOVE them (not so much OC but nearly all the other). These people know they are on camera and I know for a fact that the producers of these shows put a lot of work into finding people who are extreme and will play it up for the camera.


I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE the Housewives of Orange County. I have waited all year for this show to premier. I do not care for the other housewive shows. They are lame. Now with Jeana gone, and I know what you mean about Lynne, she is a hard looking, washed-up whore! I used to like Gretchen, but I lost all respect for her when she jumped in the sack with Slade before the embalming was even done on her ex-fiancee' that she raked over the coals. So sad. By the way, I would like to buy Tamra's house.


This is why I stick to the high quality viewing, ie, The Real Housewives of NYC.

ok....i like gretchen the best because her boobs are the only real ones on the show. i think lynne is more stoned then high on vicodin. both of her daughters are red-hot messes and future alcoholics/addicts. did you see the bowling alley episode last season? she is a horrible mother- like she probably put her girls on low carb diets when they were toddlers.
God...i miss Nene. she is my american idol! and a wonderful example of a beautiful woman who is comfortable in her own skin!