Survey Says... "X."

by Risa Green

 

When I was a kid, my mom had this thing about x-rays at the dentist. Every time my brother and I went for our annual teeth cleaning and check-up, the dentist wanted to take x-rays of our mouths, and every time my mother would refuse to let him. I didn’t mind – I hated having to bite down on that plastic thing shoved inside my cheek, and the lead vest they put over my torso always made me nervous. At the time, it was a little embarrassing to have to sit there while my mom argued with the dentist over radiation exposure, but the experience made me realize a few things: one, you don’t have to go along with everything in life just because it’s what’s typically done, and two, you should try to limit your exposure to radiation as much as possible.

 

The first of these lessons is one that I make use of often. I’m a big fan of questioning authority – respectfully, of course – and of making informed decisions for myself rather than blindly relying on “common practices.” I’ve told my kids early and often that the argument that everyone else has it/is doing it/gets to go there is never, ever going to work on me, and that if they want to persuade me of something, they’re going to have to come up with some much better and more creative reasons than that.

 

The second of these lessons, however, is (thankfully) not one that I’ve needed to heed very often. In fact, I can only think of two times that it’s come in handy. The first time, I was really sick and my doctor took a chest x-ray in his office. I was then admitted to the hospital and the doctor there wanted to take another chest x-ray the same day. I refused, insisting instead that my doctor could send over the x-ray that had been taken just a few hours before. The second time, I was in Hawaii, pregnant with my son, and I started having excruciating pain on the right side of my abdomen. The E.R. doctor was worried my appendix might burst, and he wanted to take an x-ray to see if they should operate. He assured me that the risks to the baby were low since I was in my second trimester and not my first, but still, there was no chance in hell I was going to agree to expose my still-developing baby to radiation. So I sat in the hospital for five hours waiting to see if my appendix would explode. It didn’t, and the pain eventually went away. I still don’t know what was wrong with me, but I can tell you that I feel a whole lot better knowing that I didn’t increase my son’s chances of getting cancer.

 

madlermom
12.02.10

I totally think that the invasive body pat downs are a way to gain acceptance of the body scanners...not working for my family either! But it does open up the conversation with your kids about strangers touching them...I have not flown recently so I have not had to deal with this, but I don't feel too thrilled about my kids being pat down.

kjpope
11.24.10

What TSA doesn't seem to realize in their efforts to put the Airlines out of business or at least drive off the non-business traveler is that its gotten a lot cheaper and easier to rent a car then bother with the invasion. It only costs a bit of time. But from other news reports I hear if I want to avoid the X-ray or the pat down all I have to do is put a sheet over my hair and claim to be muslim woman...but wait isn't that what all this security was intended to avoid...muslims getting on planes with bombs????

kmayer
11.23.10

I've been refusing xrays for my kids for well, 18 yrs. We get them every 5 years, if there's a concern. Argument ensues at each visit and I know we have big red Xs on all 4 kids files. Don't care.
Tell your mom to look at NYT 11/22: http://tinyurl.com/2a8y58y

Looks like we've got the science to back it up.
Yay for Risa Green's mom and me!

KMayer
http://www.returntoworkmom.com/

Whimzy Mountain Gal
11.23.10

Count me as one of the outraged that buying a plane ticket is now agreeing to be subjected to a machine that hasn't been tested nearly enough to by used on humans. Either that or be fondled by a stranger in public. I agree with all the reports that these overly aggressive searches are as punishment when you don't just shut up and take it. If we hadn't bought so many other tickets for our upcoming vacation, I'd be staying home.